I felt love when you..

I felt love when you..

• you held my hand..
• walked me home..
• comforted me in cold..
• kissed me before sleep..
• showed me new places..
• fed me with the best cuisines..
• took me for a spiritual tour..
• stopped me from doing wrong..
• helped me to fight against injustice..
• sat beside me when i was ill..
  
• encouraged me to achieve the best..
• acknowledged me for all my achievements..
• . . . n so much more..
  

Thank you parents.. You did all those beautiful things..
You made this world, a heaven for me.. You are the reason of my happiness, success and joy..
I will love you forever!

What do you need more.. Time or Money ??

Which is important..

Giving money to someone.. or your time..
You feel it too tough to answer.. Right ?
Perhaps, this could be very simply answered..
If i ask only three questions..

1. What does your Friends want more from you ?
2. What does your Parents want more from you ?
3. What does your God want more from you ?

I have asked these in reverse order purposely..
And i believe you have got the answer..

I am NOT good if..

'Being good' is what almost everyone, wants to be.. May be because we have figured out through experience that good people are cherished more.. So for pride, show, attention or anything else, we try to be good.. Or sometimes, we actually believe in goodness.. The reason might be anything, but there are few things that are always true..
I am NOT good if..

• i don't pray daily to thank the almighty..
• i don't respect or give time to my parents..
• i don't behave properly with one who cares..
• i don't respect others feelings..
  
• i don't help others..
• i don't serve..
• i don't share..
• i don't listen..
• . . . . . .
  
• . . . (the list goes on)
  

Simply, if i don't care for people who really mean to me or for other people in the name of humanity.. I am not considered to be good!!
But the irony is, I may not be doing some of these things purposely.. Still, in the eyes of the world, i am NOT good..

HA-PPI-NESS

HA - laughter

PPI - parts per instance

NESS - state

To be technical , the parts of your life in which you laugh with no other thought in mind.. is precisely what is called happiness.. Its a state of enormous amount of joy that starts filling up your heart and then flows in the body all over with a sense of vibration and you just feel the chill.. A state of no tension, no grief, no jealousy.. but rather joy, purity, innocence and compassion..

The joy could have started from

• The smile and innocent act of a child.
• The beauty of the nature that surrounds you.
• The food you always wanted to eat.
• The gadgets you always wanted to have.
• The help you always wanted to volunteer.
• The goal you always wanted to achieve.
• The love you always wanted to express.
• The thoughts you always wanted to share.
• The knowledge you always wanted to spread.
• The quality time you always wanted to spend with family.
  
• The company of the friends with whom you wanted to have fun.
  

And there are lots of more things which matter to us and we believe they are the source of happiness.. Its not always achieving, having or acquiring that gives pleasure.. It is giving, which even if done in small amount gives us tremendous amount of long lasting happiness.. Happiness spread is happiness earned.. Its a fact of life, if you make someone happy today; you would feel twice the amount of happiness which he would have felt..

Just love and help others, and you will flow in happiness and will never know..

"Love thy neighbour as thyself" :-)

"NO"

The toughest word is "NO". Saying NO to a loved one, is one of the hardest thing, one may have to do. Its sometimes said for the good of others and sometimes due to circumstances. In the former case, its understood. But for the the latter, its pity. Its becomes much harder when..

• a father says NO to his child for a toy because he can not afford one..
• a mother says NO to her child when she couldn't provide him food..
• a brother/sister says NO to the other when he/she wanted to have something..
  
• a teacher says NO to his student when he asks a simple question..
• a boss says NO to his employee for giving him a promotion when he had worked very hard..
  
• a lover says NO to his partner as one couldn't stand against his/her family traditions..
• a friend says NO to another friend when its his turn to help other out..
• a poor says NO to false money as he is honest..
• a rich says NO to freedom as he is afraid to be robbed/killed..
  
• a person says NO to another for NO reason.....
  

LIFE = RISK

The two most inspiring thoughts which motivates us :
If you have never failed, you have never Lived !! from Famous Failures
If you don't risk , you risk more !! by Shakespeare
One needs to take risk in life if he has to grow and reach heights. Things and situations will always be tough, but we need to be tougher. We need have courage and listen to our heart to have something extra-ordinary, something beautiful, something enhancing, something pleasant, rather something better !! So, get ready to take Risk, God is there to help you out ;-)

Stuck..

Only one thing is important.. Believe in GOD !!
You can achieve anything in life, iff you know you are on the right path and have complete faith in God.. He just tests you, you need to overcome those.. Always tell him that you know that he does good (do mean it!) and he is their for you.. I am sure of it, he is within us, always testing us out and strengthening our faith.. Jai Mata Di ;-)

Love can break all barriers..

In his famous book 'Love and Loneliness', J. Krishnamurti, the 20th century thinker, emphasises on 'love' as the panacea for all our ills and miseries. He says, 'If you have no love - do what you will, go after all the gods on earth, do all the social activities, try to reform the poor, enter politics, write books, write poems - you are a dead human being. Without love your problems will increase, multiply endlessly And with love, do what you will, there is no risk, there is no conflict. Then love is the essence of virtue.' Krishnamurti says that our problem is that our lives are empty and we know no love. And that's why we have filled ourselves with jealousy, competition and violence. We run after things in search of happiness but find our lives boring and complicated. Krishnamurti says that love has not blossomed in us because of our mind, which creates all the mess. He says that we cannot understand love until we understand that equally complex problem, called the mind. And it is mind that destroys love..
Why have we given so much significance to the rulings of the mind? Clever people, cunning people don't know what love is because their minds are so clever that it makes them superficial, whereas love is not a thing that exists on the surface. The mind says, 'This is mine, that is yours, I'm a Hindu, I'm a Muslim, I believe in this, I believe in that,' and so on. The mind believes in possessions and relationships and that fills it with jealousy, competition and ultimately with violence and hatred. The mind gradually becomes warped or fixed in a certain pattern, it gets crystallised, hard, dull. 'Love' does not believe in petty barriers. It is only when the mind is quiet, when it is no longer expecting, demanding, seeking, possessing, being jealous, fearful or hateful is there a possibility of love. So we must be concerned not with love, which comes into being spontaneously, but gravely consider those things that are hindering an affectionate worldview...

Be Tough..

Tough times never last but tough people do.. So, one must never lose hope, as thier is always a solution for everything.. You just need to see it the other way.. Problems will come.. But dont get shaken up with them, rather welcome them and solve them as they were not problems but unwanted tasks to make you strong in different situations.. Be optimistic! When the time gets tough, the tough gets going..

Who are good hearted..

Forgiveness comes by people who are… who are good hearted.

We have a right to forgive, and we have a heart to forgive. We must learn to forgive… and forgive without any remark behind it. whatever may be your power, whatever you might have achieved in your life, whatever position you must be occupying, but you must learn/try the way to forgive, otherwise you are no where in life. You must try to forgive, thats a very great quality, if you can forgive… forgive all the time.

You have to die before you die to be born again..

Seeker : You have to die before you die to be born again.

God : Yes. It’s true. But that, that I agree, but that death doesn’t mean that you die the way you are supposed to die. No. You see every flower has to die before it becomes a fruit. Every egg has to die before it becomes the bird. Isn’t it? In the same way what dies within us is our mister ego and superego. They are sucked in. So nothing to be frightened of. Die to live. That’s the point is. Die to live. Live a higher life.

I Am the Way, the Truth and the Life..

Jesus said, I Am the Way, the Truth and the Life: the Way because you must walk in my footsteps to reach the throne of the Eternal, the Truth because I am the Eternal God, the Totality of all that is, the Life because the Tree of Life, grounded in the Earthly Mother and ascending to the Heavenly Father, is nourished in my blood.

Standing alone..

Jesus said, He who stands alone shall be with God; he who is with God shall stand alone.

We are just humans..

Give yourself to him..

Jesus said, I Am the door; he who enters by me, shall find eternal bliss. I Am the bed; he who lies upon me shall enter perpetual rest. I Am the Light; he who See's by me shall behold all things.

Sharing..

Serenity..

Know Thyself..

Jesus said, If you say that the abode of God is in the sky, the birds will arrive there before you. If you say it is in the sea, the fish will arrive there before you. Know that the kingdom of heaven is within you and without you, and you shall know that which is within. When you have found the Light within yourselves, you will know as you are known. then you will know that you are the sons of the living Father and that your destiny is to be as He. He who knoweth not himself, is poor in Spirit, for he is his own poverty.

The Way of Truth is the pathway to the Eternal Godhead..

Jesus saith, Let him who seeketh continue seeking until he findeth. When he findeth, he will be troubled at the contemplation of Truth, but when he hath passed through the time of trouble, he will be astonished at the glory of the Light, for the Way of Truth is the pathway to the Eternal Godhead and the price of the price of the beatific vision is the wringing of the soul. He who would rise above all things must descend below all things, for the way to the heights passeth through the depths of anguish which generate the fires of Life. Blessed is the man who hath suffered and found Life.