It doesn't matter..

It doesn't matter if you don't get what you want.

It doesn't matter if things seems unfavourable.

It doesn't matter what your stars say.

It doesn't matter what others think will happen.

It doesn't matter what you think will happen to you.

It doesn't matter . . .

You just need have a little Faith.

Nature is such that Everything gets balanced.

Just Be happy if there are bad times,

As good times are on their way to balance them out :)

So, it really doesn't matter . .

I felt love when you..

I felt love when you..

• you held my hand..
• walked me home..
• comforted me in cold..
• kissed me before sleep..
• showed me new places..
• fed me with the best cuisines..
• took me for a spiritual tour..
• stopped me from doing wrong..
• helped me to fight against injustice..
• sat beside me when i was ill..
  
• encouraged me to achieve the best..
• acknowledged me for all my achievements..
• . . . n so much more..
  

Thank you parents.. You did all those beautiful things..
You made this world, a heaven for me.. You are the reason of my happiness, success and joy..
I will love you forever!

What do you need more.. Time or Money ??

Which is important..

Giving money to someone.. or your time..
You feel it too tough to answer.. Right ?
Perhaps, this could be very simply answered..
If i ask only three questions..

1. What does your Friends want more from you ?
2. What does your Parents want more from you ?
3. What does your God want more from you ?

I have asked these in reverse order purposely..
And i believe you have got the answer..

I am NOT good if..

'Being good' is what almost everyone, wants to be.. May be because we have figured out through experience that good people are cherished more.. So for pride, show, attention or anything else, we try to be good.. Or sometimes, we actually believe in goodness.. The reason might be anything, but there are few things that are always true..
I am NOT good if..

• i don't pray daily to thank the almighty..
• i don't respect or give time to my parents..
• i don't behave properly with one who cares..
• i don't respect others feelings..
  
• i don't help others..
• i don't serve..
• i don't share..
• i don't listen..
• . . . . . .
  
• . . . (the list goes on)
  

Simply, if i don't care for people who really mean to me or for other people in the name of humanity.. I am not considered to be good!!
But the irony is, I may not be doing some of these things purposely.. Still, in the eyes of the world, i am NOT good..

HA-PPI-NESS

HA - laughter

PPI - parts per instance

NESS - state

To be technical , the parts of your life in which you laugh with no other thought in mind.. is precisely what is called happiness.. Its a state of enormous amount of joy that starts filling up your heart and then flows in the body all over with a sense of vibration and you just feel the chill.. A state of no tension, no grief, no jealousy.. but rather joy, purity, innocence and compassion..

The joy could have started from

• The smile and innocent act of a child.
• The beauty of the nature that surrounds you.
• The food you always wanted to eat.
• The gadgets you always wanted to have.
• The help you always wanted to volunteer.
• The goal you always wanted to achieve.
• The love you always wanted to express.
• The thoughts you always wanted to share.
• The knowledge you always wanted to spread.
• The quality time you always wanted to spend with family.
  
• The company of the friends with whom you wanted to have fun.
  

And there are lots of more things which matter to us and we believe they are the source of happiness.. Its not always achieving, having or acquiring that gives pleasure.. It is giving, which even if done in small amount gives us tremendous amount of long lasting happiness.. Happiness spread is happiness earned.. Its a fact of life, if you make someone happy today; you would feel twice the amount of happiness which he would have felt..

Just love and help others, and you will flow in happiness and will never know..

"Love thy neighbour as thyself" :-)

"NO"

The toughest word is "NO". Saying NO to a loved one, is one of the hardest thing, one may have to do. Its sometimes said for the good of others and sometimes due to circumstances. In the former case, its understood. But for the the latter, its pity. Its becomes much harder when..

• a father says NO to his child for a toy because he can not afford one..
• a mother says NO to her child when she couldn't provide him food..
• a brother/sister says NO to the other when he/she wanted to have something..
  
• a teacher says NO to his student when he asks a simple question..
• a boss says NO to his employee for giving him a promotion when he had worked very hard..
  
• a lover says NO to his partner as one couldn't stand against his/her family traditions..
• a friend says NO to another friend when its his turn to help other out..
• a poor says NO to false money as he is honest..
• a rich says NO to freedom as he is afraid to be robbed/killed..
  
• a person says NO to another for NO reason.....
  

LIFE = RISK

The two most inspiring thoughts which motivates us :
If you have never failed, you have never Lived !! from Famous Failures
If you don't risk , you risk more !! by Shakespeare
One needs to take risk in life if he has to grow and reach heights. Things and situations will always be tough, but we need to be tougher. We need have courage and listen to our heart to have something extra-ordinary, something beautiful, something enhancing, something pleasant, rather something better !! So, get ready to take Risk, God is there to help you out ;-)